
Last week was about being more human. I thought it was going to be a one off, but let’s keep exploring what it means to be human. This week we will reflect on showing up and disappearing.
Earlier in my career, we were going through some particularly tough times in in the function I worked in. There was a reorganization and uncertainty. Things were tense and emotionally charged. I remember asking a leader I looked up to what to do with all of this. While I can’t remember exactly what he said, his main idea was to pay attention to who shows up and who disappears. Pay attention to see who shows up with a word of comfort, a smile, a listening ear, and a soft bit of light. Pay attention to see who is there for other people. Do what they do and try to be there. That is what leadership looks like. That’s always stuck with me, and when things get hard, I remember that I want to be one of the people who shows up.
Connecting this to work. I mentioned last week that work was hard, and that many of us are feeling that right now. Be honest. When was the last time you felt overwhelmed? I’ve felt that recently, and there’s no shame in that. Life is a complicated mess sometimes. While all this is going on, I think back to what my mentor shared with me. I think back to the example he and others set. I think about how I can try to show up for others. I might not always have the perfect thing to say in that moment. All I might have to give is a little warmth, a quick check-in, or a moment being present. Anything I am able to give is worth it because it’s one way to connect heart to heart, human to human. It’s those little moments that matter in tough times.
The challenge- If you are able, how can you show up for someone today? If you’re struggling, that’s okay too. I hope kind words and positive vibes find you.
Have a jolly good day,
Andrew Embry









