“Small” Things to Be Thankful For (11-21-23)

A group of drawings of turkeys

Description automatically generatedThis is a last-minute bonus blog.  I was listening to the Inside Job podcast as I drove in this morning, and it talked about how when we share what we are thankful for this time around that most people share something similar like, “I’m thankful for my family, my health, my friends, etc.”  These are all great things to be thankful for.  The podcast talked about digging a little deeper to recognize other things you’re thankful for that don’t immediately pop into your mind.  Often, these can be the “small” things that make life extra special.

Here is a quick list that pops into mind for me.  I am thankful for

  • Coloring and doing art projects. I recently colored turkeys with my family, and it brought me an unexpected amount of joy.
  • Perfectly melted cheese on food, whether it’s a burger, sandwich, or omelette.  There’s something magical about how cheese gives the food a warm cozy hug and holds it all together.
  • I don’t get these very often, but moments of quiet and stillness that enable you to feel the presence of something larger than yourself.
  • Seeing fog sweep over a field.  It just looks magical.  Bonus points if there is also a sunrise happening.
  • Trash talk and fantasy football.
  • That moment when YOUR song starts playing and instantly you are transported to a better place.
  • That moment when someone you care about achieves something and your heart wants to burst from cheering them on.
  • A good hug.  I’m convinced if we had enough good hugs we could change the world.

The challenge: What are some “small” things you’re thankful for?

Have a jolly good Thanksgiving,

Andrew Embry

Poets Capture, Explore, and Share Moments (6-21-17)

This is the last in the series about lessons I’ve learned from performing poetry.  We’ve talked about finding your voice, performing your version of dope poems, emotionsmithing, walking in the shoes of other people with persona poems, and last week we talked about bombing and moving on.  I’d like us to finish by reflecting on what a poet does and how that connects to life and work.

If I asked you what an artist or a poet does, what would you say?  I’d argue that an artist captures thoughts, moments, emotions, insights, etc., explores them in different ways, and then shares them with others.  A poet captures, explores, and shares those things using words, rhythm, and literary devices as opposed to colors, musical notes, clay, etc.  This might sound really basic, but it’s had an impact on the way I live and experience life.  When I first started writing I always assumed I had to wait for the muse to give me secrets.  Over time, I’ve realized that there are emotions, moments, insights, etc. around every corner that are worth capturing, examining, and sharing.

Here are a few of those positive and negative things that are worth capturing, exploring, and sharing.  It’s the moment when you answer a phone, hear breathing, and know the next sentence is going to be bad news.  It’s the couple on their first date inside of a restaurant, their nervous energy seen in every flirtatious movement.  It’s the sun shining down reminding you that at least you have its rays for today to keep you warm.  It’s the dog smiling as it waits for a belly rub.  It’s the first time you know what love is. 

So what does this have to do with anything?  There are ways this connects to life and the way this connects to work.  On the work side of things, if you think about what we do we spend a bulk of our time trying to understand people the moment they become patients.  We capture these insights, look at them from different angles, and then share them between cross-functional teams so we can better help individuals.  We make medicines to change that moment of pain or fear into something different.  The challenge at work is how often do we really stop to capture and explore those moments, looking at them from a variety of angles and perspectives?  On the life side of things, how often do we truly pay attention and observe what is happening around us?  If you’re anything like me, I can get lost looking for huge signs, for the muse, and I miss the little things that are so impactful.  Just taking the time to witness and allow ourselves to truly feel these things, good and bad, makes a world of difference in how you experience life.  Life is so much richer once you experience its depths. 

The challenge: Are you capturing, exploring, and sharing these moments to make the world around you better?

Bonus Question: What are some of your favorite “small” moments you’ve witnessed at work?  Here are some of mine:

  • Opening up a handwritten note.
  • The first time you feel you are providing value in a new role.
  • Watching someone nail something that they were nervous about.
  • When a person you’ve always seen potential in has a second where they realize they are awesome.
  • When you’re presenting for a tough audience and someone gives you an encouraging smile.
  • When the person who is always a tough critic gives you a compliment.

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Lessons from being a Dad Part 6 Small Things Transform Moments (4-26-17)

Last week was about the different kinds of value a blanket can bring.  Here is one of my favorite responses to last week’s blog from one of my favorite folks here at Lilly, “Essentially being a blanket that the team needs, is a sign of great leadership.  Providing value in your role will be your baseline expectation.  Making an impact to the team will help to demonstrate the leader you’re capable of becoming.”  As you reflect on that tasty morsel we will stick with blankets this week and think about how we can turn a normal occurrence into something special by doing something small.

The picture is from Violet’s birthday.  Normally, we eat lunch at a table together, but it was Violet’s birthday and we wanted to do something a little different for lunch before her party.  She loves picnics, but it was too cold outside, so instead we decided to put down a blanket and put on her favorite cartoon and we instantly had a cartoon party picnic.  Pretty awesome right?  I can tell you wish you could have a cartoon party picnic at work. 

In the above instance we took an experience and made it even better by doing something small.  We took an old blanket, put it on the ground, and instantly transformed the living room into something more.   

How does this connect with work?  If you think about what we ultimately do, we create experiences for people.  We create experiences for the patients we serve and we also create experiences as we work with each other.  In both cases, it’s easy to think that the only way we can have an impact is through some large gesture.  Don’t get me wrong, large gestures are nice, but they aren’t always feasible or necessary.  Often, it’s the small things that can transform one thing into a much better experience. 

As you think of the patients we serve, what small things can you do to make their experience better?  Do they always need something with lots of bells and whistles?  Maybe they need something smaller and more practical.  Something as simple as going the extra step to make sure that the materials they receive are simple and easy to understand.  Maybe it’s something like the packaging or delivery device. 

As you think of working with each other, what small things can you do to make the experience better?  Maybe it’s as simple as sending a meme about being awesome vs. just sending a “great job” generic email.  Maybe it’s as simple as saying, “I saw this and it reminded me of you,” to let them know you care.  Maybe it’s just a kind word and a high five.  Maybe it’s a hand-written note (I actually keep all of the ones I receive and I even reread them when I have crappy days.  I know. Sappy.  But if you’ve ever given me a handwritten note know I’ve got more value out of it then you will ever realize.)

The challenge: Are you doing the small things that can make a big difference?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry