An Open Letter to 2025 (12-3-25)

The year is coming to an end, and I’ve been spending a bit of time by my Christmas tree reflecting. Here is my open letter to 2025.

Dear 2025,

Your friend 2024 was rough, and if I’m being honest, kind of beat the crap out of me. You on the other hand, were a bit of a rainbow unicorn dancing in the midst of a thunderstorm. Yes, things were sometimes as chaotic as heck, but you were beautiful with a touch of magic and everything I needed.

My theme for the year was “Rebuild”. As I shared in my first blog of the year, after getting beat down, I needed to make extensive repairs AND changes. I did just that. I had better work/life integration than I’ve had in years. I’m ending the year with a solid foundation that should serve me well in 2026.
I continue to be thankful for my health. While I have room to grow, I rebuilt some of my health habits, and I’m at least exercising more regularly than I have for the past few years. I’m looking forward to accelerating this next year.
It’s easy to forget that love is a verb. Words are nice, but without actions, they aren’t love. Words without actions are just empty gestures. Love is active. Love is listening, helping, taking accountability, being vulnerable, growing to be a better partner/person, and more.
Speaking of love, my wife is incredible. Every year I spend with her I am in deeper awe of her strength and how much she cares about me and our kids. I wish everyone had a partner in their life like her that made them better and made them want to be better.
My kids are 11 and 13 and continue to come into their own. I’m proud of them for their accomplishments, but I’m most proud of them for how they are growing into good people. People who care. People who are brave enough to own their mistakes and repair situations. If they grow up and all they are is good people that will be the best outcome that could ever occur.
I’ve spent the last year of work as a Mad Scientist/Willy Wonka hybrid character, and that’s been so enjoyable to see dreams come to fruition.
The chance to deliver magic at work increases when you have the right people in the right roles with the right leadership surrounded by the right team. It’s hard for those things to line up, and I’m thankful to have lived that this year.
Are the people at work just people you work with or are they teammates and partners? There’s a difference. Something incredible happens when you can get talented people to see a common vision and build toward that together.
Is it real pressure or is it self-pressure? Often, we do more damage to ourselves with our own made-up expectations than we do based on the real expectations.
Hard times suck AND they are often great teachers. They teach you who cares. They teach you what matters.
Plant things now. Maybe you’ve missed your moment like I have in the past. That’s okay. That moment is gone, so plant now for a better future.
2025, you’ve been good to me. Thank you!

The challenge: If you haven’t taken the time, take a few moments to reflect on 2025 and the lessons and emotions it gave you this year. How will these shape you moving forward?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

“Rebuild”- One Word or Phrase for the Year (1-2-25)

Happy New Year!

I hope you had a fabulous holiday! Kicking the blog off this year on a Thursday, since it’s my first day back in the office. This entry will focus on identifying a word/phrase that will serve as our north star for the year.

At the beginning of every year, I take time to reflect and choose a word or phrase that will be my north star for the year. I’ve found it helps ground me versus getting lost among setting too many goals. To identify my one word/phrase I ask myself things like: What went well last year that I want to continue? Where could things have been better? What do I want to achieve? How do I want to feel about things? What do I want to give more focus and energy toward this year? What do I want others to notice and say about me?

While there were some incredible parts of 2024, it was also a year that kicked my butt. The work demands and life stress threw me off center and out of balance in so many ways.

As a result, my word for 2025 is rebuild. As defined by Merriam-Webster rebuild is a verb that can mean to make extensive repairs AND to make extensive changes in. I like the dichotomy of those two ideas. One part is about building back, and another is building new. I need to do both.

So, what exactly do I need to rebuild? I need to rebuild and repair a better integration with life and work that doesn’t leave me burned out. I need to rebuild some boundaries and an ability to let things go so I don’t stress over them. I need to rebuild and change habits that ensure I’m taking care of all aspects of my health. As I’m shifting into a new decade of life, I need to rebuild who I am and what matters most to me.

The challenge: What is your one word or short phrase for the year? What is your north star?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Legos and Building and Rebuilding Ourselves (2-15-23)

This will be the final entry in the Lego series. We’ve looked at Legos as they relate to details/the big picture, evidence and trust, and mistakes being the beginning of something. This week is about Lego bricks and building and rebuilding ourselves.

The picture to the right is a bin filled with Legos. They come in all different sizes and shapes. Some are short. Some are long. Some are wheels. Some are oddly shaped. Some are bricks. Some are characters. Eventually, they are all brought together to build something. Maybe you build a robot or a car or a house or something else entirely. The beauty in all of this is that we can use those same blocks to build and rebuild over and over again, each time building something new and unique. You can take those exact same blocks and build masterpieces, only limited by your imagination.

What does this have to do with anything? What if I told you that your life is just a bunch of Lego bricks. All of the elements of who you are and all of the things you ever experienced are merely Lego bricks. Some are beautiful. Some are sad. Some are joyous. Some are painful. Some are quirky and unexpected. Some are calming. All of these “bricks” live inside of you. The beauty is that you have the ability to build and rebuild yourself over and over again. This is the beauty of being human. We’re not stagnant. We are always building. We always have the ability to rebuild ourselves and help rebuild each other. We can create glorious messy human masterpieces, only limited by our own imaginations. If that’s not a miracle, I don’t know what is.

The challenge: What will you build with the Lego bricks of your life?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry