A Favorite Professor and Leaving a Legacy (5-14-25)

This week is a one-off entry about one of my favorite college professors and leaving a legacy.

You never know when inspiration will hit.  I had to get my wallet to buy something online and when I opened it, I saw the small card that I have kept with me since I was a senior in college almost 20 years ago.  When I saw it, I smiled, and thought of Professor Skinner, one of my all-time-favorites professors who also happens to be retiring.  This card is from a personal mission statement she had us write in her class, and I’ve had it ever since.

When I think about my time in her class, there are so many things that come to mind.  She cares.  She cares deeply about her students and her goal has always been to help them become better humans.  She was always willing to push and challenge to help you realize your potential.  There is so much I learned from her about being curious, being strong enough to ask for help, and how to think about and develop my personal brand.  Whether it was during college or afterward, she always showed love, support, and challenged to me keep growing.  I am so lucky to have had her as a professor and mentor.

Now let’s make some connections to our topic this week.  Professor Skinner will go down as one of my favorite and most impactful professors I ever had.  I know many of her students that feel the same way.  What an incredible legacy to leave.  It has me thinking about the legacy that I’m building.  How will others feel when they look back at memories of us working together?  What will people say when I retire?  What lasting impact will I have on them?  If I could be a Professor Skinner for other people that would be a tremendous accomplishment in life.

The challenge: What will your legacy be?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Chasing MacGuffins (5-7-25)

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This will be the final entry in the series inspired by storytelling tricks and mechanics.  This week is about chasing MacGuffins.

A MacGuffin is a plot device that serves as a catalyst for action throughout the story.  It’s something that characters are motivated to acquire.  Often, the MacGuffin is an object, but it could also be a goal or an idea.  For example, a popular object MacGuffin would be the Ark of the Covenant from Raiders of the Lost Ark.  This was from the first Indiana Jones film.  The movie follows Indiana Jones, an archaeologist, as he goes on a globetrotting adventure to find and secure the Ark before the Nazis can get it and use its powers.  All the action, conflict, and movement all are driven toward acquiring this MacGuffin.  Without the MacGuffin, there wouldn’t be an Indiana Jones story.  There wouldn’t be anything driving him forward to achieve.

Let’s connect this to life.  Sometimes, I find myself working and running around endlessly.  Then, I pause for a moment, and I realize that I’m not sure what I was running toward or why I was running.  Has this ever happened to you?  Maybe we all need a MacGuffin to bring clarity and lead to action.  Sometimes, my MacGuffin is a medal, which serves as a catalyst for me to train and prepare for a race.  Sometimes, my MacGuffin is a specific deliverable, which causes me to really focus on what matters.  Sometimes, my MacGuffin is the idea of being an awesome dad, which causes me to be a lot more in tune with how I’m parenting.

The challenge: What is a MacGuffin worthy of your pursuit?

Bonus fun question: If your MacGuffin is an idea, what physical thing would embody that idea?  Maybe it’s embodied by a statue, a diamond, or something else.

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Obstacle Course Racing and Avoiding Injury

Happy Monday,

I have a bonus blog for you about obstacle course racing and avoiding injury.

Whenever I do a race, I have 3 goals: don’t get injured, enjoy myself, and finish.  My safety and health always come first because not only do I want to be able to do more races, but I have a life outside of racing where I want to be a great husband, dad, and friend.  When I began my race on Saturday, I started off running.  Very quickly, I felt the pain in my leg, giving me a signal that something wasn’t quite right.  I have a history of stress fractures and knew this could lead to an injury.  At this point, I had a choice.  I could keep running and risk injury or I could slow down and walk.  The young and less wise Andrew would have kept running and likely hurt himself.  I decided to slow down and walk.  While I might have been slower than I had hoped, I enjoyed the trails, had fun tackling the obstacles, and overall had a great time.  Best of all, my leg (and the rest of me) feels pretty good today!

What does this have to do with work?  I don’t know about you, but I’ve seen and heard of a lot of people running themselves into the ground at work.  It’s like they are running with leg pain and keep running until the bone eventually snaps.  Have you seen this?  Have you experienced this?  I know I have.

In the story this week, I mention how there is more to my life than just races, which is why my health and safety is so important.  In a similar way, while work is important, it’s not the only thing in our lives.  We are more than just employees.  When we push past exhaustion at work, not only are we less effective at work, but we’re not the spouse, partner, parent, friend, etc. that we’d like to be.  At least that’s what I’ve found from first-hand experience.

The Challenge: How can we pay attention to the pain signals and adjust accordingly before we get injured?

The Leader Challenge: How are you creating an environment that protects people from being ran into the ground?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Perspective and The Wicked Witch (4-30-25)

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I’m excited to continue our series focused on storytelling tricks and mechanics.  Last week was about world-building and culture.  This week is about the Wicked Witch and perspective.

Is the Wicked Witch evil?  It depends on what perspective the story is told from.  The Wizard of Oz is told from Dorothy’s perspective.  It’s about her finding friends, and the Wizard of Oz telling her she has to defeat the evil Wicked Witch of the West, so she can go home.  Wicked is told from the Wicked Witch’s perspective.  Before she was the Wicked Witch, she was Elphaba.  The story follows her growing up as an outcast and being a rising hero until the Great and Powerful Oz turns on her and brands her as the Wicked Witch.  (By the way, the Wicked move was amazing!) 

What does this have to do with anything?  I find it so fascinating how an entire story can change, just by altering your perspective.  I grew up on The Wizard of Oz, always just accepting Dorothy’s perspective.  Then, I saw Wicked for the first time, and suddenly I saw an entirely different side of the story.

Think of your own life.  How often does something similar play out for you?  Have you ever thought you understood a situation, and then had your opinion changed when presented with a different point of view?  I’ve learned over time that we all have our default perspective on things, and it’s our responsibility to stay open to other ways of viewing things.  I’ve also learned it takes a lot of strength to suspend your own beliefs and judgment to take the time to see the story though someone else’s eyes.

The challenge- How will you take on the perspective of others?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

World-Building and Culture (4-22-25)

Last week we kicked off a series focused on different storytelling tricks and mechanics, and we analyzed unreliable narrators.  This week we are going to dive into world-building and culture.

World-building is the creation of a fictional world that is believable and consistent within the context of the story (WORLDBUILDING Definition & Meaning – Merriam-Webster).  It is comprised of all of the details that describe the world, how it works, and how the characters operate in that world.  Some fictional worlds are grounded in realism, while some are grounded in fantasy.

Pretend for a minute that you’re reading a story that takes place in England.  There are dragons in the story.  Does it make sense to have dragons in the story?  It depends.  If the book is Pride and Prejudice, and the world is built more on realism then the dragons don’t fit.  If the book is Harry Potter, and the world is built on magic and mythical creature than a dragon fits right in.

You’re probably wondering how this connects to work.  Pretend for a minute that someone challenges the leader in a meeting.  Is this okay?  It depends.  If the culture is one that is built on hierarchy and fear, then this is not acceptable behavior.  If this is a psychologically safe culture where people are encouraged to challenge ideas, then not only is challenging the leader acceptable, but it is also expected.  I’ve been on teams in both situations, have you?  How did you feel about living in each of those cultures?

With all this in mind, what if building culture is the same thing as world-building?  Building culture is comprised of all of the details that describe the group’s mission, how the team works, and how the characters operate within that culture.  We can influence all of those things.  We can set the mission.  We can set the tone for what mindsets and behaviors are acceptable and rewarded.  We all have the power to influence and build the culture we want to be in.

The challenge- What kind of world, what kind of culture will you build?

Bonus deep reflection- What kind of culture/world do you think your actions create around you?  How do your behaviors create that culture/world?

I’d hope that people say, “Andrew creates a culture of care, creativity, and nerdtastic fun and authenticity.”  These are the things I’m intentionally trying to build.  I try to invest time in understanding people and showing them I appreciate them.  I build a culture of creativity by embracing messy problems, making connections, and being willing to try new things.  I’m nerdtastic fun from my socks to my Team’s background, which sends a message that I’m comfortable with who I am and I want you to be who you are too.  I may not always succeed at building this world, but that’s what I constantly try to do.

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Self-Doubt and Being an Unreliable Narrator (4-16-25)

This week I’m going to kick off a series inspired by different storytelling mechanics.  This entry is about self-doubt and being an unreliable narrator.

An unreliable narrator is a storyteller whose account of events can’t be fully trusted.  They might be lying on purpose or they might unintentionally have things wrong.  The Sixth Sense is a great example of having an unreliable narrator. The story is told from the perspective of Malcom, a child psychologist, played by Bruce Willis.  Throughout the movie we see the world unfold through his eyes, and assume the events are true.  Then the twist is revealed.  Malcom had been dead the entire time and had not known it.  As all the pieces start connecting you begin to realize that the events we saw from Malcom’s eyes weren’t the real ones.  

You’re probably wondering how this connects to anything.  What if we can be an unreliable narrator sometimes like Malcom?  What if we allow our self-doubt, skepticism, or other things to infiltrate our minds and distort our perception of the reality around us?  Has this ever happened to you?  Sometimes, we need some perspective from the outside or another person to nudge us to ensure we have an accurate view on reality.

Let me share a recent personal story with you.  My new boss started a couple of months ago.  We were having a pretty good heart to heart during a 1 on 1.  At the time, self-doubt was shaping my narrative, and I shared something along the lines of, “I feel like I’m just moving soooo slow right now.  It’s like I’m not being effective.”  My boss looks at me and says something like, “I don’t feel that way or see that being true.”  This jolt was similar to the twist in the Sixth Sense, where all of the pieces started to fit together in a different and more true way.  This comment made me realize that I might have been an unreliable narrator.  Maybe, my perception of what was going on was not actually reality.  Maybe, my perception had been distorted by self-doubt.  Fast forward from two months ago to yesterday when I had my first performance check-in for the year.  Now, I had a better grasp on reality due to a more balanced self-reflection and by listening to the feedback and encouragement from others.  Instead of being burdened by self-doubt, I went into that conversation confident.  I was able to sit down and tell a story like, “I’m so proud and so excited about everything I’ve delivered so far, AND I also know I’d like to grow in A, B, C areas.”  It was a total shift from just a couple of months prior.

The challenge- How will you ensure that self-doubt doesn’t turn you into an unreliable narrator?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

AI and Being Brave Enough to “Fail Fast” and “Fail Forward” 4-2-25

This week is about AI and being brave enough to “fail fast” and “fail forward”.  I dedicate this to Jax Penso and our tech team.

A few months ago, Jax approached me with an idea.  She had a complicated dataset filled with quant and qual data.  She wanted to explore if AI could help dissect, analyze, and make connections faster and more effectively than humans could.  I loved the vision and the willingness to experiment.

I told Jax that what she was asking was going to be incredibly difficult, and no one (in our company or beyond) had quite figured out how to do this with AI yet.  Jax wasn’t phased.  She was willing to explore, so we got a team together and started working.  The team acknowledged that what we were setting out to do would be incredibly difficult.  We knew that there was a good chance that things would not work out perfectly. We also knew that by pushing the boundaries of what was possible we would learn a lot.  In the end, our prototype didn’t meet our lofty expectations.  HOWEVER, we gathered a lot of learnings along the way. 

Let’s make connections.  How often do you hear people talk about being brave enough to “fail fast” or “fail forward”?  I’m sure you hear it a lot.  Those are some of the all-time most popular corporate buzz words.  Now, how often do you see people who are truly brave enough to fail fast or fail forward?  That’s a rarity.  It would have been easy for Jax and the team to decide not to pursue the project, once they understood that the chances of perfect success was slim to none.  It would have been easier, BUT it would not have been as fruitful. 

Imagine how different work would be if more folks acted like Jax and the team?  At the end of the day, the team didn’t fail.  They learned.  The team didn’t fail, they created a new foundation.  Pursuing the impossible led us to exploring new technologies and approaches.  It also challenged us to rethink and better embrace the Agile mentality.  We didn’t make it to the summit, but other folks will be able to leverage our learnings to get them a head start.

The challenge: Are you brave enough to explore, even when you’re not 100% sure how it will turn out?  Are you one of the rare people brave enough to “fail fast” or “fail forward”?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

Q1 2025 Self-Reflection (3-26-25)

It’s a bonus blog!  I hope you’re excited 😉  For the past few years I’ve used the last Wednesday of the first quarter to share a blog on doing quarterly check-ins for work and yourself.  This will be a long email, because I’m sharing my own self-assessment.

We have our first performance management coming up in the next month.  During this check-in we will talk through some of these questions.  What are 2-3 highlights?  What are 2-3 opportunities to do better?  What are some learnings from Q1 I can apply moving forward?

What does this have to do anything?  While this is great for work, we could apply this same thinking to our personal lives as well.  What are some of your goals for 2025?  How did you do with them in Q1?  Have you stopped to CELEBRATE your progress?  Stop RIGHT NOW and celebrate something you’ve achieved.  After you celebrate, then you can reflect and see if there are any gaps.  If you have gaps, why do you have gaps?  What happened?  What got in the way?  How can you adjust to reach your goals for this quarter?

The challenge: Will you take the time to do a quarterly check-in?  What changes will you make to set yourself up for the rest of the year?

Bonus: Here is my review based on the dimensions in my life I set goals for.  Hopefully, it sparks a thought or two for you.  In case no one has told you lately, “YOU GOT THIS!” 

  • Rebuild (B+)- This is my word/theme for the year.  I wanted to make repairs AND extensive changes.  I’m giving myself an B+, because all of the momentum I’ve built back and am taking advantage of.  I’d say the trend for all categories is that the first 6 weeks of the quarter were bumpy, and from there I’ve been on a great upward trajectory. 
  • Mental Health (A)- The goal is to feel like I’m in a good, strong, solid mental state.  I feel I’m in the best headspace that I’ve been in a hot minute.  I have a lot to love and celebrate in life right now.  I think I’m also doing a better job of practicing radical acceptance and recognizing “it is what it is.”
  • Physical Health (B-)- The goal is to build strength, aiming for increasing strength by around 15%.  I couldn’t find an exercise routine or rhythm in January or February.  I’ve been crushing it in March and making sure I’m prioritizing my time to hit the gym.  I’m reestablishing my strength baselines, so I can track that more throughout the year.  I would like to walk/run more, mainly so I can make sure I’m prepared for my obstacle course races.  First one is in May!
  • Family (B+)-The goal is to feel like I’m being an amazing husband and dad.  I’m feeling pretty good about things right now.  I can feel my family start to evolve into the next phase with my son turning 11 and my daughter almost 13.  It’s cool watching them grow and leading beside my wife.  I will honestly say I’ve been working more hours than I’d like, but I think that will balance out in the future.
  • Career (B+)- The goal is to feel like I’m delivering magic.  From the end of the year through Q1, I feel like I’ve been delivering some Hufflepuff magic, and that folks are valuing it.  The whole feeling valued piece is huge.  I’m also on the verge of rolling out a few things I’ve been working on for the better part of a year, and that’s adding even more positivity.  With that said, the past few months have also been a humbling experience and a reminder that it’s impossible to juggle everything all of the time.  I’ve definitely had a few balls drop in Q1.  Some of them have been rubber.  A couple of them have been glass.  As part of the radical acceptance piece, I’m doing better at embracing it for what it is and I’m proud that despite all of the crazy I was still able to do some pretty darn amazing things.  Luckily, the crazy is starting to become more manageable.  In the midst of all the change and organizational evolution, I feel like I’m getting some stability, which might be a weird thing to say 😉.  As we continue to fill open roles, we can better distribute the workload.  Additionally, as we take confident steps toward embracing a new future, this stability will become stronger and enable the team and I to reach our potential.
  • Financial (B)- The goal is to ensure we are saving/investing money in the right way.  I’ve already shifted money for investments.  I am wasting a bit too much money on eating out right now.  I want to tighten that up in Q2.

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry

iPhones, AI, and Embracing a Product Mindset (3-26-25)

Last week was about AI, tools, and expectations.  I want to dive deeper into this area by exploring iPhones, AI, and adopting a product mindset.

It’s hard to believe that the first iPhone came out in 2007.  I think I still had a Motorola Razr phone then. 😉  The first iPhone launched with a 3.5 in LCD screen, basic camera, and maximum storage of 16GB.  Today’s iPhone 16 Pro has a 6.7 in Super Retina XDR display, triple camera, and a maximum storage of 1TB.  That is a MASSIVE tech evolution. 

This didn’t happen by accident.  This happened because of the choice Apple made.  Apple had the opportunity to choose between two things.  They could either launch the iPhone fully knowing it was good but not perfect, or they could make the iPhone perfect before they launched it.  If they would have tried to make the iPhone perfect, it never would have launched.  Instead, they were brave enough to embrace a product mindset.  They were willing to launch version 1, fully knowing they would have to evolve it over time.

What does this have to do with AI or anything else?  I’ve been leading and working on various AI initiatives over the past couple of years.  There is ALWAYS the pressure to make something perfect before rolling it out.  There is ALWAYS the fear that the AI solution won’t instantly meet all of the audience’s needs.  This pressure and fear often leads to never delivering something tangible, because we are scared to not be perfect.  Have you ever felt this about any of your work?

Similar to Apple, I’ve had to work to embrace the product mindset.  This has been a shift for me.  I’ve had to learn to accept that something that is delivered with room to grow is SUPERIOR to something that never gets off the shelf because it’s waiting to be perfect.  I’ve had to learn to embrace all the feedback and questions that come with a version 1 as fuel for growth vs criticism about my shortcomings. 

The challenge- How can you embrace more of a product mindset?  Will you be strong enough to embrace that delivered with room to grow is better than something that never gets off the shelf?

Have a jolly good day,

Andrew Embry