This will be the last in the series on prioritization. We’ve talked about dishwashers in regards to capacity, process, learning, and being intentional with people. Bottom line is prioritization is all about clarity. If you have clarity then you can appropriately prioritize. This week we are going to look at clarity’s kryptonite, an interesting conundrum of a lifeform called people.
Imagine for a moment that you had all of the dishes in the dishwasher and you were getting ready to start the cycle. Right before you did I ran up and started throwing stuff in there, which completely jacked everything up. What would you do? Would you run the dishwasher as is? Would you attempt to rearrange the dishes? Would you remove some dishes? This would never happen at work, right? Imagine you have your projects you are working on, and then someone starts throwing new projects (dishes) at you, because they are clearly priorities. What would you do? I know this never happens, but what if it did? How would you feel? It would be frustrating, right? What would you do?
Why does this happen? This happens because people are beautiful, emotional, flawed, and limited creatures as opposed to purely calculating robots. I love people and find myself frustrated by them at the same time. The thing is that we live in a world that is evolving rapidly and since people aren’t robots with amazing terabyte processing power the answers and insights we are looking for are never clean. For all of these reasons, what I’ve come to realize is that people (myself included) are NOT particularly good when it comes to clarity and truly understanding what they want.
So how does this understanding connect with our work? It changes the way we can approach people when they want to change our priorities. In the past, I would assume that the person asking me to change priorities was purely rational and knew exactly what they were doing, why they were doing it, and the outcome that would occur. Therefore, I would agree and do what they said without asking any questions. This always led to problems and complications, because I’d do work that really wasn’t that important or I’d do work where I didn’t understand the end game. Not good.
I’ve realized people are not robots and expecting them to have everything figured out when they don’t live in my world is a poor expectation to have. Instead of instantly agreeing to requests, I seek clarity before I do anything. First, I talk to them and reinforce what my current priorities are and why. Second, I ask questions to figure out what the person wants to change, why, and what impact that will have on the other work going on. Depending on the outcome of that conversation one of two things happens. The person realizes that what they want me to do isn’t as important as other things, so we drop it or I gain a new understanding of how and why my priorities are evolving, why this new project is important, and we figure out how to rebalance things. I can’t come to this place without having the conversation to gain clarity.
The challenge: Are you asking the questions to find the clarity you need before you accept projects and change priorities?
Have a jolly good day,
Andrew Embry




